Our Son’s Challenges With Hyperfixation
Hyperfixation, common in those with ADHD, is an intense, prolonged focus on a specific activity or interest. While it can lead to amazing productivity and energy, it also causes challenges like ignoring personal needs, not listening, or delaying tasks. For our son, video games are a common area of hyperfixation, affecting his focus on daily responsibilities.
My Son Has Inattentive ADHD
My son has Inattentive ADHD, a less obvious subtype that often goes unnoticed because it lacks hyperactivity. Our journey began when teachers noticed his struggles with following directions. Through diagnosis, medication, and daily challenges, we've learned so much. I’m sharing our experiences to help others navigating ADHD — because no one should feel alone in this journey.
Our Family’s Two Completely Different Types of Picky Eaters
Our family has two types of picky eaters: my son, who struggles with tactile defensiveness and dislikes certain food textures, and my youngest daughter, who refuses to try new foods. While there’s no magic solution, I encourage them to try new things, celebrating small milestones when they do. Each child is different, and patience is key!
How Am I Supposed To Get My Son Ready For College?
Attending a college prep meeting for my junior son was a wake-up call! The realization that he’s nearing adulthood and the daunting costs of college left me overwhelmed. Between teaching life skills and navigating scholarships, there’s so much to do. My advice? Start early — both in saving and preparing your child for the real world!
The Biggest Challenge Our Son Faces with Tactile Defensiveness
Our son’s tactile defensiveness diagnosis has led to a years long challenge with eating, particularly due to sensory issues in his mouth. His limited food preferences, like chicken nuggets and mac and cheese, have made meals a struggle. While he’s improved, getting him to try new foods, especially fruits, veggies, or soup, remains a challenge.
5 Things No One Told Me About Tactile Defensiveness
Over the years, I’ve learned that tactile defensiveness is lifelong, not just a phase. Explaining it to family, teachers, and doctors was often difficult, as many were unfamiliar with it. The biggest challenge was helping our son with meals, as people mistook it for pickiness. Yet, we still cherish each small milestone, like him finally eating new foods.
