Brynn Harvey
I am a stay-at-home wife and mother to three amazing kids, including one who is in constant battles with ADHD and tactile defensiveness. I think we're the perfectly imperfect family! I am an introvert, and I recently discovered that I am a highly sensitive person. I love to be at home, and my favorite hobbies are reading, cooking, watching movies, puzzles, and playing games with my family. You can also find me online: Facebook - Pinterest
Why Do We Focus On Perfection?
I’m tired of seeing perfection everywhere online — especially on Pinterest. I recently looked up pantry organization ideas, and everything seemed so perfect, yet impractical. The focus on perfection feels unrealistic. Instead of chasing an ideal, we should embrace authenticity and share how messy life can be. Practical solutions, not perfection, are what truly work for me.
Can a Teenager With ADHD Drive?
When my son, diagnosed with ADHD-Inattentive type, turned sixteen, I wondered if he could learn to drive. After a year of driving lessons, learner's permits, and overcoming his anxiety, he got his license. Though challenging, with patience and encouragement, I learned that teens with ADHD can indeed drive — it may take time, but it's possible.
Do I Make a Halloween Costume or Buy One?
Halloween is my favorite season, but Halloween costumes always stress me out. I used to try making them, but it wasn’t my thing. After years of feeling guilty for buying costumes, I’ve embraced it. Buying costumes has reduced my stress, and we enjoy Halloween much more. Do you make or buy your costumes?
Warning Signs of Tactile Defensiveness
My son was diagnosed with tactile defensiveness, a hypersensitivity to touch. He struggled with diaper changes, bath time, and even baby food textures. We didn’t understand his reactions until the diagnosis explained everything. Looking back, his aversion to certain textures and sensations made sense. Tactile defensiveness is a challenge, but understanding it has been key.
Suffering Through the Pandemic, One Child’s Journey
The pandemic brought many challenges for our family, especially for my daughter. Struggling with isolation and anxiety, we sought help from her school counselor. Using strategies like a worry box and “Count 5,” she gradually improved. Though she’s better, I’ll always remain vigilant about her mental health and well-being after seeing how the pandemic affected her.
Why You Should Do a Mother and Daughter Bookclub
Joining a mother-daughter book club this year has been a wonderful bonding experience for my daughter and me. We read together, discuss the book, and enjoy treats afterward. It’s been especially rewarding with my older daughter. If you both love reading, starting a book club could be a fun way to connect and share experiences.
